It’s hard to believe, but there’s no turning back.

The relationship is unsalvageable.

And the sooner you get out, the better.

But leaving the relationship is not enough; it’s only the first step.

Maybe you think that if you just found the right woman, then you’d be happy.

There is some truth in that idea.

A less comfortable truth is that you need to become a better man if you’re going to have better.

Okay, so let’s say you leave this woman. If you’re considering it, then you probably have good reasons.

I can’t say for sure because I don’t know the specifics of your situation.

But, what I do know, is that there are far too many people suffering in terrible relationships.

When those relationships inevitably crash and burn, then people just go and jump into the next new and awful relationship.

Men, we need to stop this craziness!

First of all, you don’t need to be in a relationship all the damn time.

For the love of Thor, take a break; get your head clear.

Check in with yourself.  If you’re not completely cut off from your truth, then you should get a clear “yes” or “no” if it’s right to leave this relationship.

Whatever path you choose, you need to get to work on yourself.

Otherwise, it’s just going to be problems all the way.