Be kind, but be direct.
Let’s stop manipulating. Avoiding. Ghosting.
You may feel fear.
Get comfortable in this place.
Relax into it. Breathe. Put one foot in front of the other.
Like walking outside in the rain or snow with no jacket. It may not be pleasant at first, but it can be quite exhilarating.
If you let it.
Soon the whole thing will be resolved.
How much energy are you wasting avoiding this person, situation, conversation?
What about them? Wouldn’t they rather just know?
Be respectful. Be kind. Be straightforward.
It’s quite liberating.